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Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends and Friends into Customers (Summary)

by Seth Godin

Why do you slam the phone down on a telemarketer who calls during dinner, but eagerly open a daily email from your favorite brand? The telemarketer stole your most valuable asset: your attention. The brand, however, earned it. The difference isn't the message; it's the radical and profitable concept of permission.

Your Ads Are an Unwelcome Pest

Traditional advertising, or 'Interruption Marketing,' works by forcing a message on a consumer who is trying to do something else. As we become overwhelmed with information, this strategy becomes increasingly expensive, ineffective, and annoying.

Think of a TV commercial break. It rudely interrupts your favorite show to push products you may have no interest in. Today, most viewers use this time to mute the TV, check their phones, or fast-forward with a DVR, rendering the multi-million dollar ad campaign completely invisible.

Treat Customer Attention Like a Prized Possession

Permission is a tangible asset that appreciates over time. When a customer gives you their email address or follows you, they are entrusting you with their attention. Your goal is to nurture that trust, not exploit it.

An airline's frequent flyer program is a prime example. A customer voluntarily signs up, giving the airline permission to email them. In exchange for that permission, they receive tailored travel suggestions, early access to sales, and reward points. The relationship deepens with every relevant email, making the customer far less likely to fly with a competitor.

Be a Welcome Guest, Not a Stranger

Effective permission marketing is a slow, steady process of building a relationship. Instead of a one-time blast, it involves a 'drip' of consistent, valuable communication that builds familiarity and trust over time.

A weekly newsletter from a trusted financial analyst provides consistent, valuable tips without a hard sell. Over months, this regular, helpful contact builds so much trust that when the analyst finally recommends a paid product, the audience is already primed and eager to buy because a genuine relationship has been established.

Turn Permission into Profit by Moving Up the Ladder

Godin outlines five levels of permission, from a basic introduction to the ultimate trust where the company makes decisions for the customer. The marketing goal is to systematically move customers up this ladder of intimacy.

Amazon's 'Subscribe & Save' feature moves customers to a higher level of permission. You initially give them permission to ship you one bag of coffee. By subscribing, you give them permission to charge you and send you coffee automatically every month, turning a single transaction into a long-term, trusted relationship.

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